{"id":64466,"date":"2026-10-19T17:46:13","date_gmt":"2026-10-19T09:46:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openhub365.cn\/?p=64466"},"modified":"2026-10-20T14:08:18","modified_gmt":"2026-10-20T06:08:18","slug":"77-sons-and-lovers%e3%80%8a%e5%84%bf%e5%ad%90%e4%b8%8e%e6%83%85%e4%ba%ba%e3%80%8b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openhub365.cn\/index.php\/2026\/10\/19\/77-sons-and-lovers%e3%80%8a%e5%84%bf%e5%ad%90%e4%b8%8e%e6%83%85%e4%ba%ba%e3%80%8b\/","title":{"rendered":"77. Sons and Lovers\u300a\u513f\u5b50\u4e0e\u60c5\u4eba\u300b"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e86\u89e3\u66f4\u591a<a href=\"https:\/\/openhub365.cn\/index.php\/2026\/07\/11\/%e8%80%83%e7%a0%94%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%ef%bc%9a%e4%bc%a6%e7%90%86%e9%81%93%e5%be%b7%e4%bb%b7%e5%80%bc%e8%a7%82%e8%af%8d%e6%b1%87%e7%9b%ae%e5%bd%95\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"27601\">\u8003\u7814\u82f1\u8bed\uff1a\u4f26\u7406\u9053\u5fb7\u4ef7\u503c\u89c2\u8bcd\u6c47\u76ee\u5f55<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4e16\u754c\u7ecf\u5178\u6587\u5b66\u7cbe\u9009. 77<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4f5c\u8005\uff1aD.H. Lawrence D.H.\u52b3\u4f26\u65af<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u9009\u81eaD.H.\u52b3\u4f26\u65af\u300aSons and Lovers\u300b\u300a\u513f\u5b50\u4e0e\u60c5\u4eba\u300b<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u82f1\u6587\u539f\u4f5c\uff0c\u8be5\u5c0f\u8bf4\u9996\u7248\u4e8e1913\u5e745\u6708\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u82f1\u6587\u539f\u6587<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The bond between mother and son<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is the most intimate and subtle emotion<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">in human relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is deeper than friendship,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">purer than desire,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and more persistent than ordinary affection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A mother\u2019s love can nourish a child\u2019s soul,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">shape his character,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">guide his growth,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and even dominate his entire life trajectory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a sensitive and thoughtful boy,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">the love from his mother<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is both a warm harbor<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and an invisible cage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He grows up bathed in maternal tenderness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He learns gentleness from his mother,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">understands compassion from her words,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and relies heavily on her company<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">in every lonely moment of his childhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No one can replace<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">the position of a mother<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">in the heart of her son.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No external affection<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">can shake the deep spiritual bond<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">formed through years of companionship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yet excessive maternal love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is never pure blessing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It contains obsession, possession,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and unspoken expectation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It fills the son with gratitude,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">guilt, attachment and restraint<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">all at the same time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He longs to escape the control<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">of his mother\u2019s profound love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to pursue independent life,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">free love and personal freedom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But every time he tries to walk away,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">his heart is pulled back<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">by endless family affection<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and deep-rooted kinship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The son struggles painfully<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">between independence and attachment,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">between self pursuit and family bond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He dares not betray his mother\u2019s devotion,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">nor can he completely sacrifice his own life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This complex emotion<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">runs through the growth of every ordinary person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Love that is too heavy will bind the soul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Affection that is too deep will restrict growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">True maternal love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is not possession and occupation,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">but guidance and release.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It allows children to grow independently,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to experience their own joys and sorrows,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to walk their own roads of life,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and to become complete and free individuals<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">with independent thoughts and unique souls.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u8bd1\u6587<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udd0d<strong>\u957f\u96be\u53e5\u8d4f\u6790\u4e0e\u62c6\u89e3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u539f\u53e5\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He grows up bathed in maternal tenderness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He learns gentleness from his mother,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">understands compassion from her words,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and relies heavily on her company<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">in every lonely moment of his childhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u53e5\u5f0f\u89e3\u8bfb\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e3b\u53e5\u4e3a\u4e3b\u8c13\u7ed3\u6784\uff0cbathed in \u8fc7\u53bb\u5206\u8bcd\u77ed\u8bed\u4f5c\u4f34\u968f\u72b6\u8bed\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540e\u6587\u4e09\u7ec4\u52a8\u8bcdlearns\u3001understands\u3001relies \u6784\u6210\u5e73\u884c\u6392\u6bd4\u53e5\u5f0f\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u53e5\u5f0f\u5c42\u5c42\u9012\u8fdb\uff0c\u6761\u7406\u89c4\u6574\uff0c\u63cf\u5199\u4eba\u7269\u6210\u957f\u72b6\u6001\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u53e5\u5b50\u4e3b\u5e72\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He is raised in a mother\u2019s love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He gains kindness and mercy from his mother<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and depends on her accompany in lonely childhood days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u6587\u5b66\u8d4f\u6790\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f5c\u8005\u7528\u6392\u6bd4\u77ed\u53e5\u5c42\u5c42\u94fa\u53d9\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5199\u51fa\u6bcd\u7231\u5bf9\u5c11\u5e74\u6027\u683c\u3001\u5fc3\u6027\u3001\u6210\u957f\u7684\u5168\u65b9\u4f4d\u5851\u9020\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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elders,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">understands tolerance from daily life,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and trusts deeply in family support<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">in every difficult stage of his youth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4eff\u5199\u8fd0\u7528\u601d\u8def\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5b8c\u5168\u590d\u523b\u539f\u53e5\u5206\u8bcd\u72b6\u8bed+\u4e09\u7ec4\u6392\u6bd4\u8c13\u8bed\u7ed3\u6784\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8d34\u5408\u539f\u6587\u6587\u98ce\uff0c\u53e5\u5f0f\u9ad8\u7ea7\u5bf9\u79f0\uff0c\u9002\u914d\u4eb2\u60c5\u3001\u6210\u957f\u4e3b\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u539f\u53e5\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">True maternal love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is not possession and occupation,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">but guidance and release.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It allows children to grow independently,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to experience their own joys and sorrows,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to walk their own roads of life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u53e5\u5f0f\u89e3\u8bfb\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u524d\u53e5\u8fd0\u7528 not&#8230;but&#8230; \u7ecf\u5178\u8fa9\u8bc1\u5bf9\u6bd4\u53e5\u5f0f\uff0c\u70b9\u660e\u6838\u5fc3\u4e3b\u65e8\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540e\u53e5\u8fde\u7eed\u4e09\u4e2a\u4e0d\u5b9a\u5f0f\u5e76\u5217\uff0c\u6784\u6210\u6392\u6bd4\uff0c\u9610\u91ca\u771f\u7231\u7684\u610f\u4e49\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u957f\u77ed\u7ed3\u5408\uff0c\u8bf4\u7406\u6e05\u6670\uff0c\u5347\u534e\u5168\u6587\u4e3b\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u53e5\u5b50\u4e3b\u5e72\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Genuine motherly love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is not control, but guidance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It supports children\u2019s independent growth<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and respects their unique life experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u6587\u5b66\u8d4f\u6790\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u662f\u5168\u6587\u6838\u5fc3\u54f2\u7406\u53e5\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6253\u7834\u4e16\u4fd7\u5bf9\u6bcd\u7231\u7684\u56fa\u6709\u8ba4\u77e5\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6307\u51fa\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u7231\u4e0d\u662f\u6346\u7ed1\u5360\u6709\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u6210\u5168\u653e\u624b\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u53e5\u5f0f\u7b80\u6d01\u950b\u5229\u3001\u8fa9\u8bc1\u6df1\u523b\uff0c\u5b8c\u7f8e\u5347\u534e\u4eb2\u60c5\u4e0e\u6210\u957f\u7684\u5185\u6838\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u5199\u4f5c\u8fc1\u79fb\u70b9\u62e8\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u9002\u7528\u4e8e\u5bb6\u5ead\u6559\u80b2\u3001\u9002\u5ea6\u7684\u7231\u3001\u653e\u624b\u6210\u957f\u3001\u6210\u5168\u4e0e\u72ec\u7acb\u4e3b\u9898\u5347\u534e\u6bb5\u843d\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4eff\u5199\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">True family affection<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is not restriction and possession,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">but accompaniment and respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It encourages young people to pursue freely,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to bear their own gains and losses,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to define their own future destiny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4eff\u5199\u8fd0\u7528\u601d\u8def\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u5bf9\u6bd4\u6838\u5fc3\u53e5 + \u4e09\u5e76\u5217\u4e0d\u5b9a\u5f0f\u7ed3\u6784\uff0c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6587\u98ce\u3001\u53e5\u5f0f\u3001\u903b\u8f91\u5b8c\u5168\u5bf9\u6807\u539f\u6587\uff0c\u9002\u914d\u9ad8\u5206\u8bae\u8bba\u6587\u7ed3\u5c3e\u5347\u534e\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udcdd<strong>\u5168\u7bc7\u53e5\u5f0f\u7279\u70b9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u672c\u6587\u9009\u81ea\u52b3\u4f26\u65af\u7ecf\u5178\u6587\u5b66\u8457\u4f5c\u300a\u513f\u5b50\u4e0e\u60c5\u4eba\u300b\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5168\u7bc7\u4ee5\u6292\u60c5\u601d\u8fa8\u53e5\u5f0f\u4e3a\u4e3b\uff0c\u5927\u91cf\u8fd0\u7528\u6392\u6bd4\u3001\u5bf9\u6bd4\u3001\u5e76\u5217\u7ed3\u6784\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8bed\u8a00\u7ec6\u817b\u6df1\u60c5\uff0c\u517c\u5177\u6587\u5b66\u7f8e\u611f\u4e0e\u6df1\u5ea6\u601d\u8fa8\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u884c\u6587\u903b\u8f91\u5c42\u5c42\u9012\u8fdb\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f00\u7bc7\u5b9a\u4e49\u6bcd\u5b50\u7f81\u7eca\u7684\u72ec\u7279\u6027\u4e0e\u91cd\u8981\u6027\uff1b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u63a5\u7740\u9610\u8ff0\u6bcd\u7231\u5bf9\u5c11\u5e74\u6210\u957f\u7684\u6ecb\u517b\u4e0e\u5e87\u62a4\uff1b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fdb\u800c\u8f6c\u6298\u5256\u6790\u8fc7\u5ea6\u6bcd\u7231\u5e26\u6765\u7684\u675f\u7f1a\u4e0e\u7cbe\u795e\u6323\u624e\uff1b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6700\u540e\u5347\u534e\u4e3b\u65e8\uff0c\u9610\u91ca\u771f\u6b63\u6bcd\u7231\u662f\u653e\u624b\u4e0e\u6210\u5168\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5168\u6587\u60c5\u611f\u5c42\u6b21\u9971\u6ee1\uff0c\u903b\u8f91\u95ed\u73af\u5b8c\u6574\uff0c\u9002\u914d\u5404\u7c7b\u82f1\u8bed\u5199\u4f5c\u7d20\u6750\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u6838\u5fc3\u8bcd\u6c47<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1.&nbsp;intimate<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\u02c8\u026ant\u026am\u0259t\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4eb2\u5bc6\u7684<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f62\u5bb9\u8bcd (adj.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2.&nbsp;subtle<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\u02c8s\u028ctl\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5fae\u5999\u7684\uff0c\u7ec6\u817b\u7684<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f62\u5bb9\u8bcd (adj.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3.&nbsp;trajectory<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/tr\u0259\u02c8d\u0292ekt\u0259ri\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4eba\u751f\u8f68\u8ff9<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540d\u8bcd (n.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4.&nbsp;maternal<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/m\u0259\u02c8t\u025c\u02d0nl\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6bcd\u6027\u7684\uff0c\u6bcd\u4eb2\u7684<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f62\u5bb9\u8bcd (adj.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5.&nbsp;obsession<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\u0259b\u02c8se\u0283n\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6267\u5ff5\uff0c\u6267\u5ff5\u5360\u6709<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540d\u8bcd (n.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6.&nbsp;restraint<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/r\u026a\u02c8stre\u026ant\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u675f\u7f1a\uff0c\u7ea6\u675f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540d\u8bcd (n.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>7.&nbsp;root-rooted<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/ru\u02d0t\u026ad\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6839\u6df1\u8482\u56fa\u7684<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f62\u5bb9\u8bcd (adj.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>8.&nbsp;release<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/r\u026a\u02c8li\u02d0s\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u653e\u624b\uff0c\u6210\u5168<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540d\u8bcd (n.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udca1<strong>\u4e3b\u65e8\u54c1\u8bfb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u300a\u513f\u5b50\u4e0e\u60c5\u4eba\u300b\u7247\u6bb5\u805a\u7126\u6bcd\u5b50\u4eb2\u60c5\u4e0e\u81ea\u6211\u6210\u957f\u7684\u6c38\u6052\u547d\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u52b3\u4f26\u65af\u6df1\u523b\u5256\u6790\u4e86\u7578\u5f62\u53c8\u771f\u631a\u7684\u6bcd\u5b50\u7f81\u7eca\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6bcd\u7231\u662f\u6210\u957f\u6700\u6e29\u6696\u7684\u517b\u5206\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f46\u8fc7\u5ea6\u7684\u5360\u6709\u5f0f\u5173\u7231\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f1a\u53d8\u6210\u56f0\u4f4f\u5b69\u5b50\u7075\u9b42\u7684\u67b7\u9501\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u4eb2\u60c5\u4e0e\u5bb6\u5ead\u6559\u80b2\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4ece\u4e0d\u4ee5\u6346\u7ed1\u3001\u638c\u63a7\u3001\u5360\u6709\u4e3a\u76ee\u7684\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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