{"id":64469,"date":"2026-10-19T17:48:46","date_gmt":"2026-10-19T09:48:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openhub365.cn\/?p=64469"},"modified":"2026-10-20T14:09:34","modified_gmt":"2026-10-20T06:09:34","slug":"78-women-in-love%e3%80%8a%e6%81%8b%e7%88%b1%e4%b8%ad%e7%9a%84%e5%a5%b3%e4%ba%ba%e3%80%8b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openhub365.cn\/index.php\/2026\/10\/19\/78-women-in-love%e3%80%8a%e6%81%8b%e7%88%b1%e4%b8%ad%e7%9a%84%e5%a5%b3%e4%ba%ba%e3%80%8b\/","title":{"rendered":"78. Women in Love\u300a\u604b\u7231\u4e2d\u7684\u5973\u4eba\u300b"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e86\u89e3\u66f4\u591a<a href=\"https:\/\/openhub365.cn\/index.php\/2026\/07\/04\/%e9%9b%85%e6%80%9d%ef%bc%9a%e5%bd%b1%e8%a7%86%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%e4%b8%8e%e8%89%ba%e6%9c%af%e5%88%9b%e6%84%8f%e4%ba%a7%e4%b8%9a%e8%af%8d%e6%b1%87%e7%9b%ae%e5%bd%95\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"23334\">\u96c5\u601d\uff1a\u5f71\u89c6\u82f1\u8bed\u4e0e\u827a\u672f\u521b\u610f\u4ea7\u4e1a\u76ee\u5f55<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4e16\u754c\u7ecf\u5178\u6587\u5b66\u7cbe\u9009. 78<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4f5c\u8005\uff1aD.H. Lawrence D.H.\u52b3\u4f26\u65af<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u9009\u81eaD.H.\u52b3\u4f26\u65af\u300aWomen in Love\u300b\u300a\u604b\u7231\u4e2d\u7684\u5973\u4eba\u300b<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u82f1\u6587\u539f\u4f5c\uff0c\u8be5\u5c0f\u8bf4\u9996\u7248\u4e8e1920\u5e7411\u67089\u65e5\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u82f1\u6587\u539f\u6587<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Love is never a simple union of two lonely hearts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is a profound collision of souls,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a constant test between desire and reason,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a struggle to keep individual integrity<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">while seeking deep connection with another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Human beings long fiercely for intimate love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We crave to be understood,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to be accepted wholly,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to merge our inner world<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">with the soul of the beloved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We imagine love as a warm shelter,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a place where all loneliness fades away,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">where two people walk side by side<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">through every season of life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yet love carries its own contradiction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When two souls draw too close,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">the independent self may gradually dissolve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One person may lose his own thoughts,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">abandon his original pursuit,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and sacrifice personal freedom<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">just to maintain the bond of love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The passion at the beginning<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">may slowly turn into possession,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">jealousy,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and endless demands on each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The women in the novel<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">do not regard love merely as romantic romance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They keep clear self-awareness even in passion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They refuse to lose themselves<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">inside a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They understand that true love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">does not mean total blending of identities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It should allow both sides<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to remain separate,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">complete,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and spiritually independent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There must be a delicate balance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Two people can share tenderness,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">share dreams,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">share the heavy moments of life,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">but they should never erase<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">their own inner boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If love swallows the individual,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">it will finally destroy the love itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If one only surrenders completely,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">the passion will turn into weariness<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and hidden resentment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">True intimacy requires courage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It takes courage to open one\u2019s heart,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and it also takes courage<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">to hold onto one\u2019s own self.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It requires mutual respect,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">honest communication,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and the wisdom to accept<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">that no two souls can be perfectly identical.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Love can elevate a person,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">purify emotion,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and bring bright meaning to life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But love can also trap the 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5404\u81ea\u575a\u5b9a\u7acb\u8db3\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5374\u4f9d\u7136\u9009\u62e9\u76f8\u4f34\u540c\u884c\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u76f8\u7231\u800c\u4e0d\u629b\u5f03\u81ea\u6211\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8054\u7ed3\u800c\u4e0d\u4e22\u5931\u8fb9\u754c\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8ffd\u5bfb\u7cbe\u795e\u5951\u5408\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540c\u65f6\u5b88\u62a4\u4e2a\u4f53\u7684\u5c0a\u4e25\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udd0d<strong>\u957f\u96be\u53e5\u8d4f\u6790\u4e0e\u62c6\u89e3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u539f\u53e5\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Love is never a simple union of two lonely hearts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is a profound collision of souls,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a constant test between desire and reason,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a struggle to keep individual integrity<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">while seeking deep connection with another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u53e5\u5f0f\u89e3\u8bfb\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e3b\u53e5\u4e3b\u5e72\u4e3aLove is never a simple union\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540e\u9762\u8fde\u7eed\u4e09\u4e2a\u540d\u8bcd\u77ed\u8bed\u6784\u6210\u5e73\u884c\u6392\u6bd4\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">while\u5f15\u5bfc\u65f6\u95f4\u72b6\u8bed\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5c06\u7231\u60c5\u7684\u591a\u5c42\u5185\u6db5\u4e00\u6b21\u6027\u94fa\u5c55\uff0c\u5f00\u7bc7\u7acb\u8bba\u6c14\u52bf\u5145\u8db3\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u53e5\u5b50\u4e3b\u5e72\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Love is far more than the joining of two lonely people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It involves spiritual conflict,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">the balance of passion and logic,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and the effort to stay independent<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">when building close bonds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u6587\u5b66\u8d4f\u6790\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f00\u7bc7\u76f4\u63a5\u98a0\u8986\u5927\u4f17\u5bf9\u7231\u60c5\u7684\u6d6a\u6f2b\u5316\u7406\u89e3\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u52b3\u4f26\u65af\u8df3\u51fa\u666e\u901a\u8a00\u60c5\u53d9\u4e8b\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4ece\u54f2\u5b66\u5c42\u9762\u5b9a\u4e49\u7231\u60c5\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6392\u6bd4\u7ed3\u6784\u5c42\u5c42\u52a0\u7801\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5960\u5b9a\u5168\u6587\u601d\u8fa8\u57fa\u8c03\uff0c\u8bed\u8a00\u539a\u91cd\u6709\u529b\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u5199\u4f5c\u8fc1\u79fb\u70b9\u62e8\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u9002\u7528\u4e8e\u7231\u60c5\u4e0e\u81ea\u6211\u3001\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\u3001\u72ec\u7acb\u4eba\u683c\u3001\u7406\u6027\u4e0e\u6fc0\u60c5\u7c7b\u8bae\u8bba\u6587\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4eff\u5199\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Freedom is never a careless escape from all duties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is a mature understanding of responsibility,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a lasting balance between desire and discipline,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a pursuit of personal value<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">while respecting the order of the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4eff\u5199\u8fd0\u7528\u601d\u8def\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5b8c\u5168\u590d\u523b\u539f\u53e5\u5f00\u7bc7\u4e3b\u5224\u65ad\u53e5+\u4e09\u7ec4\u5e73\u884c\u6392\u6bd4+while\u72b6\u8bed\u7ed3\u6784\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8d34\u5408\u52b3\u4f26\u65af\u601d\u8fa8\u6587\u98ce\uff0c\u53e5\u5f0f\u5de5\u6574\uff0c\u9002\u5408\u8bae\u8bba\u6587\u5f00\u7bc7\u7acb\u8bba\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u539f\u53e5\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The highest form of love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is not possession and fusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is two independent souls<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">recognizing each other,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">respecting each other,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">standing firmly on their own ground,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">yet choosing to walk together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u53e5\u5f0f\u89e3\u8bfb\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u524d\u53e5\u4f7f\u7528not&#8230;\u8fa9\u8bc1\u5426\u5b9a\uff0c\u7834\u9664\u4e16\u4fd7\u8ba4\u77e5\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540e\u53e5\u73b0\u5728\u5206\u8bcd\u77ed\u8bed\u5e76\u5217\uff0c\u63cf\u7ed8\u7406\u60f3\u7231\u60c5\u7684\u72b6\u6001\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">yet\u5f62\u6210\u8f6c\u6298\uff0c\u7a81\u51fa\u6838\u5fc3\u89c2\u70b9\uff1a\u72ec\u7acb\u5374\u76f8\u4f34\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u53e5\u5b50\u4e3b\u5e72\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The noblest love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is not control and total merging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Two separate souls understand one another,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">hold respect,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">keep their own identity,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">and still decide to stay together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u6587\u5b66\u8d4f\u6790\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6b64\u53e5\u662f\u5168\u6587\u4e3b\u65e8\u5347\u534e\u53e5\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u7cbe\u51c6\u547c\u5e94\u52b3\u4f26\u65af\u4e00\u8d2f\u601d\u60f3\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u7231\u4e0d\u80fd\u6d88\u89e3\u4e2a\u4f53\uff0c\u72ec\u7acb\u4eba\u683c\u662f\u771f\u7231\u524d\u63d0\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5206\u8bcd\u6392\u6bd4\u753b\u9762\u611f\u5f3a\uff0c\u8fa9\u8bc1\u601d\u8fa8\uff0c\u6536\u675f\u6709\u529b\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u5199\u4f5c\u8fc1\u79fb\u70b9\u62e8\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u9002\u7528\u4e8e\u771f\u7231\u3001\u4eba\u683c\u72ec\u7acb\u3001\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\u8fb9\u754c\u4e3b\u9898\u4f5c\u6587\u7ed3\u5c3e\u5347\u534e\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4eff\u5199\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The noblest friendship<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">is not dependence and total accord.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is two mature minds<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">understanding each other,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">cherishing each other,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">holding fast to their own beliefs,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">yet choosing to support together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u4eff\u5199\u8fd0\u7528\u601d\u8def\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e00\u6bd4\u4e00\u590d\u523b\u5426\u5b9a\u5f00\u7bc7+\u5206\u8bcd\u5e76\u5217+yet\u8f6c\u6298\u7ed3\u6784\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6587\u98ce\u4e0e\u539f\u6587\u4fdd\u6301\u4e00\u81f4\uff0c\u9002\u5408\u9ad8\u5206\u4f5c\u6587\u6536\u5c3e\u6bb5\u843d\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udcdd<strong>\u5168\u7bc7\u53e5\u5f0f\u7279\u70b9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u672c\u6587\u8282\u9009\u81eaD.H.\u52b3\u4f26\u65af\u300a\u604b\u7231\u4e2d\u7684\u5973\u4eba\u300b\u601d\u8fa8\u9009\u6bb5\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5168\u7bc7\u5927\u91cf\u8fd0\u7528\u5e73\u884c\u6392\u6bd4\u3001\u8fa9\u8bc1\u5bf9\u6bd4\u3001\u5206\u8bcd\u72b6\u8bed\u7ed3\u6784\uff0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8bed\u8a00\u517c\u5177\u6587\u5b66\u6292\u60c5\u4e0e\u54f2\u5b66\u601d\u8fa8\u8272\u5f69\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u884c\u6587\u903b\u8f91\u5c42\u5c42\u9012\u8fdb\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f00\u7bc7\u91cd\u65b0\u5b9a\u4e49\u7231\u60c5\uff0c\u6253\u7834\u6d6a\u6f2b\u5e7b\u60f3\uff1b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u63a5\u7740\u5199\u4eba\u5bf9\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u672c\u80fd\u6e34\u6c42\uff1b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u968f\u540e\u8f6c\u6298\uff0c\u5256\u6790\u8fc7\u5ea6\u878d\u5408\u5e26\u6765\u5360\u6709\u4e0e\u51b2\u7a81\uff1b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u518d\u805a\u7126\u4e66\u4e2d\u5973\u6027\u6e05\u9192\u72ec\u7acb\u7684\u7231\u60c5\u89c2\uff1b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u7ee7\u800c\u63d0\u51fa\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\u9700\u8981\u5e73\u8861\u4e0e\u52c7\u6c14\uff1b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6700\u540e\u5347\u534e\uff0c\u70b9\u660e\u6700\u9ad8\u7684\u7231\uff0c\u662f\u72ec\u7acb\u7075\u9b42\u7684\u5f7c\u6b64\u9009\u62e9\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5168\u6587\u903b\u8f91\u95ed\u73af\u5b8c\u6574\uff0c\u60c5\u611f\u601d\u8fa8\u517c\u5907\uff0c\u662f\u4f18\u8d28\u82f1\u8bed\u4eff\u5199\u7d20\u6750\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u6838\u5fc3\u8bcd\u6c47<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1.&nbsp;collision<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/k\u0259\u02c8l\u026a\u0292n\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u78b0\u649e\uff0c\u51b2\u7a81<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540d\u8bcd (n.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2.&nbsp;integrity<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\u026an\u02c8te\u0261r\u0259ti\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4eba\u683c\u5b8c\u6574\uff0c\u6b63\u76f4<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540d\u8bcd (n.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3.&nbsp;craving<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\u02c8kre\u026av\u026a\u014b\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6e34\u671b\uff0c\u6e34\u6c42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540d\u8bcd (n.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4.&nbsp;dissolve<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/d\u026a\u02c8z\u0252lv\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6d88\u878d\uff0c\u6d88\u6563<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u52a8\u8bcd (v.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5.&nbsp;possession<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/p\u0259\u02c8ze\u0283n\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5360\u6709\uff0c\u638c\u63a7<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u540d\u8bcd 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